26 Lessons Learned in my 26 Years

Today is my 26th birthday, yay! I don't have any big plans today because the boyfriend is working and has class, except to eat a red velvet cake and cream cheese icing my mom sent me. We are going to celebrate this weekend instead.

Being 26 now, I'd like to think I'm pretty wise or at least wise-ish. However, we all still do stupid stuff (myself included), but those are the things you learn from. So in honor of my day of birth here are 26 lessons I've learned over the years. Some are obvious and cliche but, still important.

1. It's ok to ask for help. Asking for help is not a sign of weakness, so don't be embarrassed.

2. Never skip a Monday workout, because later on in the week when fun Saturday plans get in the way of your workout you won't feel as guilty.

3. Follow the news. Doesn't matter if you read it, watch it or listen to it, just stay up to date.

4. Never go to bed angry. I know this has been said many times. But, its so true!

5. Smile, even if you are sad. Ever heard the phrase "fake it til you make it." Well I think it applies here too. 

6. In need of some advice? Ask your parents.

7. Need to make a big decision, go for a walk. Its a great way to clear your mind and studies show it sparks creativity.

8. Travel. Do it as often as you can. Its a great way to open your mind and give you new experiences.

9. Everything in moderation. This works for food, wine and weekend binges of Real Housewives.

10. Don't let other people decide what makes you happy. I know this seems obvious, but, sometimes you don't even realize how much other people influence what you think.

11. If you don't have time to shower, that's ok. Baby wipes and baby powder are your best friend.

12. Do the things that scare you. Most of them turn out to be worthwhile experiences.

13. Always, always, always where sunscreen. Your skin will thank you and you will be happy you did in 20 years.

14. Always trust your gut. It is usually right.

15. Friendship is a two-way street. Both of you need to make an effort for the friendship to work.

16. Not everyone is going to like you, and that is ok.

17. Money is not the secret to happiness. Duh. But it is easy to get caught up with material goods and making lots of money.

18. You can't avoid your problems. They will eventually catch up to you.

19. If you choose to be happy, you will be.

20. Learn a new language. It will be worth it.

21. Having a bad day? Watch a few episodes of Friends and you'll feel better.

22. Always say please and thank you. Even if others don't.

23. Don't compare yourself to other people. Follow your own path and make your own mistakes.

24.Hydrate, Hydrate, Hydrate. Drink lots of water everyday. The benefits are endless.

25. Always try it on. If you are anything like me you are not a fan of dressing rooms and trying on clothes, but, you will regret it if you don't.

26. Its ok if you don't have things all figure out yet. You may feel pressure sometimes to get your life together, but, its your life and you can live it any way you like.